Romance in the new world has taken on new hues. It has embraced technology and dating today via the internet is extremely popular. All of us dream of meeting the ideal man or woman and have in our minds what we like and what we dislike.
Online dating makes meeting the ideal very easy.
You don’t have to spend time with a person to realize that the person is not the right one and, you can really get to know a person before actually setting up a meeting.
Online dating sites are professionally managed and great care is taken to make it a safe experience. The process is streamlined. You fill in your requirements and the site will send you lists of other members who maybe suitable. Then all you need to do is to look through the lists, short list a few, read their profiles, and then contact them through e-mails or “chat” services provided by the site.
Once you touch first base you can get to known the person “virtually” and then decide to proceed to step 2 and meet the most likely candidate. According to studies, the success rate is 94%. And, there are more than 700 dating sites on the World Wide Web.
Professionally managed, the sites have articles that discuss different aspects of dating, tips on how to go about dating, as well as comprehensive FAQs. Most members are computer savvy and educated although there are a few dangers lurking even on dating sites. Tech savvy, online dating has reached new horizons with videos, live voice messaging, and forums.
You can know all you want by reading the profiles, and the match making service will help you narrow your choice using questionnaires and compatibility rankings. You can locate your ideal date by using many criteria like: profession, location, age, physical appearance, lifestyle, horoscope, as well as hobbies.
Online dating is a stress free and affordable way of meeting people, making friends
You are free to set your own boundaries and can decide whether you are looking for along term relationship or a casual one. The advantage is you can access the sites anytime and from anyplace. Morning, noon, or night the choice is yours.
Projecting a star image will get you nowhere as sooner or later the truth will emerge
Prepare yourself mentally. Write down what you like in a partner and what you dislike. Always be honest and fill in correct information on yourself. Ultimately a date must like you for yourself and not some mirage image of you.
- Read the dos and don’t s given on the site.
- Always be courteous. Don’t keep anyone hanging say yes or no as the case maybe. Follow the unwritten rules of etiquette.
- Protect yourself and never reveal personal information like phone numbers, addresses, or financial information until you are sure of the person and have verified his or her credentials.
- Read a few dating books before you begin your quest. And, once you begin, spare some quality time to read through profiles and make contact with suitable people.
- Be careful and plan to meet the ideal on a foursome date. Never meet anyone alone or in secluded spots. Read and understand rules of safety.
- If you have been in a relationship before or have children say so. Never hide facts.
- If a person is upsetting you or troubling you report the incident to the site management and block the person from contacting you or accessing your profile.
- Choose a site that has credibility and is a member of the TRUSTe program or has a BBB online reliability seal.
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Laugh to Connect Your Limbic Brain and Cerebral Cortex
Only humans laugh. Other animals express emotions as they occur. Our emotional regulation stops us from suddenly expressing unexpected emotions.
Our cerebral cortex sends emotions it doesn't know how to regulate to our speech area, and we laugh. We associate laughter with humor because humor is always unexpected. But humor isn't one emotion.
Humor is any emotion we can't regulate.
Because different individuals regulate different emotions well or poorly, different individuals laugh at different events.
A sense of humor attracts women.
Laugh in emotional situations, e.g., when you do something embarrassing.
Laughing connects your limbic brain and cerebral cortex, enabling better awareness of your emotions.
Realize your hopes and dreams by using online dating sites. They are safe and there is nothing to be afraid of.
Ask around and you will find that many of your friends or colleagues have been quite successful at online dating.
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