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It may seem funny to some, or totally far fetched to suggestion that intuition and romance have anything to do with each other. Consider this, however.

What makes you take that long walk across the dance floor, or the bar, or the library or the grocery store or wherever to say hello to that attractive stranger?

How many times have you heard people yourself included say, Ive never done anything like this before?

Intuition has led to take that leap for the sake of possible romance. Something some sixth sense tells you not only that this might be the one but that this person will feel the same and not reject you.

Intuition and romance come together in other ways as well. Especially in later years in a relationship, people will connect with their mates to the point that they know long distance when something good or bad has happened to their mate.

That kind of intuition isnt just about romantic relationships either. A close connection with a loved one a child, a sibling, a parent, a great friend can cause intuition to send a signal when theyre hurt or in trouble.

Twins often know what the other is feeling or thinking.

Intuition is often the reason why romance blooms into long term loving relationships

The difference between a relationship that has intuition and one that is missing it is the difference between really knowing each other finishing each others sentences, sensing how they will feel about something and just putting up with them so as not to be alone.

Intuition, our sixth sense, isnt the only sense that adds to romance of course.

The other five are important as well. Our sight can be used to drive each other wild with desire, can make the rest of the world disappear as we gaze into each others eyes, can send silent and powerful messages that the rest of the world doesnt get but drive the two of you more powerfully together.

Our sense of hearing is a great aphrodisiac, and a powerful force for lasting love

Listening to our mates and learning what they want, what they dream about, what they love, can teach us far more about how to keep love and romance alive than our mouths can ever teach.

The sense of taste, even outside of sexual relationships can foster romance. Dining in a luxurious candlelit restaurant, feeding each other especially by hand is romantic and intimate.

Smell, is a strong romantic sense.

Choose one fragrance that your partner loves and wear it often, though lightly.

Leave fragrant hints of it on your pillow when youre out of town, in a sachet in the bathroom when youre gone, on the clothes that hang in the closet that you share.

Make that certain smell remind her or him always of you.

We probably dont have to say much about how the sense of touch builds romance. In fact, it might be said that all adults have an intuition about touch and romance.

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What Do Women Find Attractive In A Man?

Men, if you think youve got what it takes to turn the heads of the ladies, you may be mistaken! Likewise, fellas, you may indeed have what women want! A survey was taken of a group of women, ages 29-50 and listed below are some of their likes and dislikes when it comes to the male species!

POSITIVE FIRST IMPRESSIONS:

When asked the question What is the first thing you notice when you see or meet a man? some of the responses included: Probably his eyes - "the windows to the soul"; then his butt, for sure! I like bigger guys. But I also notice white shirts and if a guy is clean cut. Visually, his height/build (I like 'em big) Personality-wise, intelligence and sense of humor rank high with me. I always notice the eyes and overall cleanliness first. He doesn't have to be in a three piece suit but just clean, not stinky or wearing holey clothes.

A great smile doesn't hurt either :)

Left ring finger, teeth and smell and in that order. If I see a man is married, I rarely give him a second glance. If hes single I look at his mouth to see if he has straight teeth (I had braces at 40 years old, so I guess I expect straight teeth from grown men) and finally his scent.

I absolutely adore the smell of cologne on a man. Well the first things I usually notice are his eyes and sense of humor. Then if he was someone I was dating, I observe how he treats his mother. OK don't laugh, but I guess I noticed teeth because I was a dental assistant when I met my husband. Oh ya, I also tried to check out his "package" but it was very hard to tell if anything was there!

His smile and physique.

Conversely, there are some things about a man that are an instant turn off to the gals. NEGATIVE FIRST IMPRESSIONS: Long hair, bad breath, body odor, "wimpy" or fem appearance. Generally any kind of unkempt appearance.

Fuzzy sweater teeth and scuffed up, unpolished shoes. Dirty hands, dirty nails. I hate dirty ears. If the guy has earwax, I will notice immediately and it makes me gag! I would never be able to date someone who doesn't clean his ears regularly.Long fingernails and dirty/too long/unkempt hair.

Looking at my body instead of my face.

Use of vulgar or profane language. Intoxication or drug usage. Evidence of poor personal care habits. So there you go, men. The women have spoken. Basically if you smile and dont stink, you have an in. Conversely, if your personal hygiene leaves much to be desired, you can forget it. Now go wash your hands, get a hair cut, use a q-tip, brush your teeth and smile pretty for the babes!